Why people say I don't have to be on diet?-So annoying!!

I wrote in the previous post that I started a new diet.And that is really working.
And somebody wrote in a comment that I shouldn't be on a diet, and I don't have to be thiner than I am.
But the big fatty truth is that if I do it I do it because:I want it,I don't feel good,balanced,happy in my body, I want to live healthier than now and fitter,I want to succeed in something I decided.
And I think my weight clogged me up in many things in my earlier and my present social life.
And of course all of my friends say that they like me as I am but, the thing is that I don't like myself, so rather support me than hold me back!

xoxo D